There are many ways to flirt with girls, but they all fall into three main categories.

Being proactive is nice. You can just say or do something flirty out of the blue.

You can wait for them to do something or say something that you have a pre-planned response for.

And you can bait them into doing something that will set up one of your pre-planned responses.

Here are some examples of each:

ACTIVE FLIRTING: This is the most direct method. You simply take the initiative and do something flirtatious. For instance, you could bump into her, or give her a certain look, or play with innuendos. You take a chance when you’re direct, though. If your flirting is cheesy, it can come off as canned. But if she’s in the right frame of mind it can show an attractive kind of confidence.

TRIGGERED FLIRTING: Triggered flirting can be even better than proactive flirting, because it appears more spontaneous and less planned. For instance, suppose she brags about herself. You could say, “That’s impressive. You’ve just earned 5 more minutes with me.” Reactive flirting can signal that you’re quick witted and ingelligent. And, of course, it doesn’t actually have to be spontaneous. You might have dozens of responses ready for common things girls say or do. It just has to look spontaneous to be effective.

TWO-STEP FLIRTING: Suppose you have a line prepared for when a woman bends down to tie her shoe or pick something up off the floor. And suppose when she does that you plan to say “Oh, I don’t require people to bow down before me anymore”. But suppose she hasn’t bent down in front of you yet. You can wait and hope you have a chance to say your flirty line. Or you can set things up. How would you set things up so she bends down in front of you? Well you could secretly take something of hers off the table and put it on the floor, and when she notices and bends down to pick it up, then you could deliver your line.

So those are three ways to flirt. Did you find them interesting? All three methods are discussed in much more detail in the book “Flirting Deconstructed”.

Tyler Paxon teaches guys How To Flirt With girls. And he teaches girls how to flirt with guys. Discover your flirting IQ with his free flirting assessment at http://how2flirt.com

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